Sometimes, I hate it when the only thing you want to talk to me about is the uni work and assignment. Most of the time, I’m really sick of most people asking me for help. I am too easily taken advantaged on and what’s worst?! Most of the message are all out the work and assignment… I hate the fact that I’m too generous to even consider helping out. I don’t know how to say no, but I don’t want to disappoint you either. I hate the fact that you people ever talked about is how to do this and how to do that.
This is the only reason why I ever hated myself. I can’t learn to say no and this is what it feels to get used only for the assignment and nothing else…
I hate it
Insecurities. Everyone has them. If you claim that you do not, good for you, and if you are, it’s Okay. It’s okay to be afraid of something that you are not familiar with or trying not to embarrass yourself in front of society. Just ignore the little things and express yourself for who you are. If you keep staying insecure, then how will people get close to you as a friend, as a family or as a significant other?
Sometimes even I have insecurities. Usually things don’t go as planned for me, and there are one of those days that you want to crawl and sob in the corner of a hole. You should be proud and overcome your insecurities. Founding out what it exactly is, is harder than originally thought. I will definitely overcome my insecurities, if I were to ever to find out that is.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.And, this is how you keep her.
Junot Diaz- This is How you Lose Her (via bl-ossomed)
😕 this made me tear up a bit